How to Love Teaching Despite the Challenges: Insights from Renès Lophanor
Renès Lophanor’s new book “I Still Love Teaching Despite Having All The Reasons In The World To Quit” delves into the heart of educational reform, focusing on student engagement and innovative teaching methods. It’s a reflection of his two-decade long journey as a teacher, offering insights into the challenges and triumphs of the profession.
Takeaways:
- The importance of building personal relationships with students to foster respect and understanding.
- Teachers often leave the profession due to lack of support and overwhelming administrative burdens.
- Maintaining a balance between teaching and personal life is crucial for long-term happiness.
- Engaging students through collaboration enhances their learning experience and builds essential life skills.
- Inspiring students can lead to greater resilience and empowerment in their lives.
- Teaching should focus on positive aspects, despite the challenges faced in the education system.
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Last year, for example, 40,000 teachers left the profession in the UK alone and in France there were about 25,000.
Renes LofenorAnd that's something that is global, I would say mainly in the.
Renes LofenorIn the Western countries.
Renes LofenorOne of the main strategies that I use is to build a personal relationship with the students and to have mutual respect towards them and to treat them like a human being rather than like a student by finding the words, the right words, the right way to explain to someone what you know.
Renes LofenorThat in itself is another skill.
Renes LofenorMy goal is to be the teacher that I wish I had when I was at school.
Renes LofenorThe reason why I enjoy teaching still is because when I walk out the school building, I leave everything behind.
Renes LofenorI leave the school life behind me.
Renes LofenorI am now in my new life, hobbies, family time, etc.
Renes LofenorI had to change my mindset and tell myself the school is my job, my profession.
Renes LofenorOkay?
Renes LofenorMy real life is outside the school, so I need to live.
Mark TaylorHello, welcome back to the Education on Far podcast.
Mark TaylorThat was Renes Lofenor and he's got a book out called I Still Love Teaching despite having all the Reasons in the World to Quit.
Mark TaylorWe have a great conversation about his experience, why he wrote the book, some amazing takeaways from it, and a big thank you to the national association for Primary Education for their continued support and sponsorship of this show.
Mark TaylorReally hope you enjoyed this conversation.
Mark TaylorHello, my name is Mark Taylor and welcome to the Education on Fire podcast, the place for creative and inspiring learning from around the world.
Mark TaylorListen to teachers, parents and mentors share how they are supporting children to live their best, authentic life and are proving to be a guiding light to us all.
Mark TaylorHi Renez, thank you so much for joining us here on the Education on Fire podcast.
Mark TaylorIt's always great to chat to someone who's got a really diverse educational background from a professional point of view as well as a sort of a learning point of view as well.
Mark TaylorAnd might be great to sort of hear about all those things, but I think most importantly for me, this idea of people getting disillusioned with the education system.
Mark TaylorBut then do you get out?
Mark TaylorDo you stay?
Mark TaylorWhat is it that you do?
Mark TaylorAnd I think our conversation is going to be so supportive for all those people who are especially maybe on that cusp.
Mark TaylorSo yeah, so thanks so much for being here today.
Renes LofenorMy pleasure.
Renes LofenorThank you very much, Mark, for having me on your show today and it will be my pleasure to share my insights and with your audience and hopefully they will find something to take away and help them in.
Renes LofenorIn the life, not necessarily in the Deed in the education world, but in the life in general.
Mark TaylorYeah.
Mark TaylorFantastic.
Mark TaylorSo why don't we start with that kind of background that you have?
Mark TaylorBecause it's multi countries, it's studying in different countries, it's sort of, kind of all that culture and upbringing must give you a really unique sort of idea of what life's about, not just what education is about.
Renes LofenorAbsolutely.
Renes LofenorI was born in Haiti and for those who don't know about this place, it's an island located in the Caribbean about 60 miles away from Cuba.
Renes LofenorEveryone knows Cuba and Dominican Republic.
Renes LofenorIt shares the island with Dominican Republic.
Renes LofenorAnd so I lived in Haiti until I was around 10 years old and then I moved to Paris where I continued my studies up to university.
Renes LofenorAfter uni, I came to England where I did teacher training, the pgc.
Renes LofenorAnd I've become now a qualified teacher for the last 22 years and I am still loving teaching.
Mark TaylorFantastic.
Mark TaylorAnd that way that we should jump in into your book from there just because there's so much there about the fact I love your enthusiasm and the fact like you say you're still loving teaching.
Mark TaylorAnd the essence of the book is like, despite all the reasons why maybe you could quit, should quit, understand what that element's like.
Mark TaylorSo take us into the starting point of that and in essence what you trying to get across to it.
Renes LofenorWhen I started writing this book, actually the book I wanted to write was my autobiography, believe it or not.
Renes LofenorBut with being in my mid-40s, I thought that could be a bit presumptuous to write my autobiography at such a young age.
Renes LofenorSo let's leave that for later.
Renes LofenorAnd then I started talking to people a lot about the education system, what I like about it, what I don't like about it, what I would change if I were part of the policymakers.
Renes LofenorAnd then I decided to write the book to, to pinpoint those, those things.
Renes LofenorBut I wanted to focus on the positive side of things because every time someone is talking about teaching in general, they always go for the negative side of it.
Renes LofenorAnd I'm not blaming them because it's, it is in, it's.
Renes LofenorIt is in human nature to, to emphasize what is negative rather than the positive.
Renes LofenorSo I decided to take things the other way around and focus on the positive.
Renes LofenorSo because I still love teaching and I've noticed that, let's say last year, for example, 40,000 teachers left the profession in the UK alone and in France there were about 25,000.
Renes LofenorAnd that's something that is global, I would say mainly in the, in the Western countries and in the United States don't even need to mention that.
Renes LofenorSo I wanted to give.
Renes LofenorShare some insights on what I do, which has helped me to maintain my passion for the profession despite all the challenges that we teachers are facing on a daily basis in the classroom or in the school altogether.
Mark TaylorAnd yeah, I mean, it's amazing and we're going to jump into what those, what those reasons are.
Mark TaylorBut I just wanted at this point just to say this is what I love so much about the podcast is because this is the reason the podcast was created.
Mark TaylorI was going into lots of schools doing music workshops and I was seeing so many people in staff rooms literally banging their heads against a brick wall saying, I got into it because this was my dream and this is what I wanted to do.
Mark TaylorBut because of all the reasons I'm sure we may cover, they were like, it's, it's really difficult.
Mark TaylorAnd I was in the privileged position of being able to say, but I know the school down the road or in this county or this part of the country, this was happening.
Mark TaylorEither it was a charity providing something or it was a way of teaching or it was something maybe they hadn't thought about.
Mark TaylorAnd I thought if I can a conversation with them about that, maybe it's going to make a difference.
Mark TaylorAnd I think today it's almost like we're sort of 400 odd episodes into the show now and it's like you're going to encapsulate all of this in one go, which is why I think it's absolutely fantastic.
Renes LofenorSo I'll do my best.
Mark TaylorPlease do take us into, into, into those reasons and what you've learned.
Renes LofenorOkay.
Renes LofenorThe main reason that comes, that comes to mind when, when you ask a teacher what they think of the, the profession is the behavior issues that they have with, in the classroom with the students.
Renes LofenorAnd what makes it difficult for my colleagues, for teachers in general, is the fact that you don't always have the necessary support that you would need from the senior leadership in order to say to, to solve the problem.
Renes LofenorAnd, but that's, that's one, one reason and I will tell you in a bit how I managed to, to mitigate that in my, my own teaching, my own classroom and other.
Renes LofenorOther reason is the, the lack of the.
Renes LofenorNo.
Renes LofenorThe increase, the increase of admin.
Renes LofenorAdmin.
Renes LofenorAdministrative staff put upon the shoulder of teachers and the excess of testing assessment every two, three weeks and data processing and all that for the salary is not that great.
Renes LofenorIt's not that great.
Renes LofenorAnd compared to what people who have the same level of education to a teacher would get elsewhere.
Renes LofenorSo for the most of it, for someone to decide to remain in the teaching profession, it's more than for the money, because if it was just for that, I don't think we would have many teachers left.
Renes LofenorAnd that's one of the reasons anyway that a lot of them are fleeing.
Renes LofenorAnd if I'm still here, that's because my passion for.
Renes LofenorFor it is still higher than my need for.
Renes LofenorFor my financial need, even though obviously I would definitely prefer to be paid to the real value of my.
Renes LofenorOf.
Renes LofenorOf my skills.
Mark TaylorExactly.
Mark TaylorYou know, you're not going to, you're not going to turn it away should it.
Mark TaylorShould it arrive.
Renes LofenorExactly, Exactly.
Renes LofenorEspecially after 22 years of experience.
Mark TaylorY.
Renes LofenorAnd yeah, I said earlier I was going to explain how I deal with the.
Renes LofenorWith behavior issue in my.
Renes LofenorIn my lessons.
Renes LofenorOne of the main reason, reason or strategies that I use is to build a personal relationship with the students and to have mutual respect towards them and to treat them like a human being rather than like a student.
Renes LofenorAnd by doing so, they will see you first as a human being as well before they see you as a teacher.
Renes LofenorThe problem I see with students, and I remember from my childhood when I was at school, is the teachers that we saw as teachers were for us unreachable.
Renes LofenorThey were not approachable and therefore there were not people we were looking up to as role models.
Renes LofenorWhereas those who were approachable, friendly, and it was easy to approach them, to ask for help, and therefore we respected them more than those who put for the status of teacher.
Renes LofenorAnd that's.
Mark TaylorYeah, yeah, it makes a lot of sense.
Mark TaylorAnd I think for me, often it's that idea of we often start with, it should be like this.
Mark TaylorSo, you know, we'd hope that students come in and you'd have the respect, the discipline would be there, you'd have a culture where everyone wants to learn.
Mark TaylorBut maybe that's not the case.
Mark TaylorAnd like you say, you'll have more experience of this than me.
Mark TaylorYou know, maybe that is something which is becoming more and more of an issue.
Mark TaylorBut if your starting point is, is that despite all of that, what I'm trying to do is, as you've explained, is about creating these relationships, understanding what's going on, then it's a much easier starting point.
Mark TaylorEven if the situation may well be different, what you're trying to do and how you're going about it immediately has a different framework.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Renes LofenorAt the beginning of my lessons in, in September, with all my New classes.
Renes LofenorThe first thing I make sure I do is to learn everyone's name, everyone's first name during that hour that I have with them.
Renes LofenorSo that at the end of the lesson, as I'm dismissing them, I stand by the door and each of them will pass and I say, au revoir, so and so.
Renes LofenorAu revoir, Caroline.
Renes LofenorAu revoir, Paul, or Adios, Jardine, depending on the language I'm teaching them.
Renes LofenorAnd at the end of that lesson, they are so impressed that I remember all.
Renes LofenorI remembered all the names, that they see me as the teacher who knew their name.
Renes LofenorAnd by knowing their names, and you call them by the names in the corridor, on the playground.
Renes LofenorI mean, they, they, for them, you have noticed them.
Renes LofenorYou.
Renes LofenorIt's, it's.
Renes LofenorIt's like you value them as a person and, and that means a lot to them.
Mark TaylorI think that's.
Mark TaylorIt's really important, isn't it?
Mark TaylorAnd just take us into.
Mark TaylorPeople have got a picture in terms of the subjects you teach in the sorts of age group that you're teaching.
Renes LofenorYeah, I teach German.
Renes LofenorSorry, I have taught German, French in my first few years of teaching, but nowadays I teach Spanish, French and music.
Mark TaylorFantastic.
Mark TaylorAnd anybody who's doing music in school gets my vote for absolutely everything because I know how important it is.
Mark TaylorHaving been given the opportunity at school and became a professional musician and still have the chance to sort of share that passion.
Mark TaylorIt's something which is so important and so often gets pushed to one side.
Mark TaylorSo I can imagine not only doing it, is it important, but having someone who's really enthusiastic about the students as well.
Mark TaylorThat's.
Mark TaylorThat's a great way of being.
Renes LofenorBut I do prefer teaching languages, though.
Renes LofenorMusic.
Renes LofenorI love playing music.
Renes LofenorThere's.
Renes LofenorThere's no doubt about it.
Renes LofenorAnd I do use music in my classroom.
Renes LofenorI have a guitar right behind my desk and which I use occasionally.
Renes LofenorBut I find more joy in teaching languages.
Mark TaylorAnd so take us into.
Mark TaylorYou said that the second part of all this was kind of the administration and all of that kind of thing.
Mark TaylorHow do you.
Mark TaylorI'm sure there'd be everyone thinking, where does the joy come from?
Mark TaylorDoing more and more admins.
Mark TaylorI'm interested in terms of where that focus comes.
Renes LofenorI have absolutely no joy in that in the admin part.
Renes LofenorAnd for me, I can say now, if I am to leave teaching or at least in school, that would be probably the first reason why I would leave.
Renes LofenorAnd there are far too many tests and just most of the time it's for the sake of having some Data to tick the box, because in the underground, you don't really see the real benefit of them to the kids.
Renes LofenorPersonally, I would rather spend that hour of testing to teach the students new things or to consolidate what they did not grasp fully.
Renes LofenorAnd to me, that would be a much more valuable way to use that time.
Renes LofenorAnd so regarding test, I try to be, let's say, different in the way I conduct my testing.
Renes LofenorFor example, we regularly test students on learning vocab tests, sorry, vocab list and grammar points, etc.
Renes LofenorAnd what I like to do is to use what I call the power of collaboration.
Renes LofenorAnd I mentioned that in the book because that's something that I really value.
Renes LofenorAnd I said to my students, when you leave school, as soon as you leave school, you will not be working on your own.
Renes LofenorYou will be working with other people.
Renes LofenorYou will have colleagues, you will have a boss, you will have relative friends, you will be working in an office, but with other people.
Renes LofenorYou will not be expected to do anything on your own as such.
Renes LofenorAnd it will always be part of a team.
Renes LofenorYet in the classroom, they want students to be on their own.
Renes LofenorThey are not allowed to chat to their peers right next to them.
Renes LofenorAny test they do, it has to be on their own, individual.
Renes LofenorAnd so I, I try to add the collaboration in the testing process.
Renes LofenorSo what I do, when we do a test, an assessment, obviously not the formal one, the formal one, unfortunately, they have to do that on their own.
Renes LofenorBut any others which are not formal, I let them do the test on their own first.
Renes LofenorI let them start at least.
Renes LofenorAnd then I said, okay, now you're going to collaborate.
Renes LofenorAnd some would ask, collaborate?
Renes LofenorWhat does that mean, sir?
Renes LofenorThat means working together with someone and they are so surprised.
Renes LofenorIt's a test, sir.
Renes LofenorYes, I know, I know it's a test, but I am allowing you to work with the person next to you.
Renes LofenorHowever, there's a catch.
Renes LofenorEach mistake you make will count double.
Renes LofenorIf you want to work on your own, that's fine, then each mistake will be worth one point.
Renes LofenorBut if you decide to work together, which is fine, but each mistake counts for two points, what do you choose?
Renes LofenorWhat do you think they choose?
Renes LofenorThey chose most of them, I would imagine.
Mark TaylorMost of them wanted to collaborate.
Renes LofenorExactly.
Renes LofenorAnd they, they all did, regardless the risk of losing more points, they still prefer the collaboration, which is a strength in human being.
Renes LofenorThat's, that's how we manage to be the apex on this planet.
Renes LofenorIt's through collaboration.
Renes LofenorAnd that's still what's happening in our society.
Renes LofenorIt's working together, we succeed.
Renes LofenorSo by trying to teach them that as early as in school, I'm hoping to prepare them more or better for, for the future, for the real life, I would say.
Mark TaylorI absolutely love that.
Mark TaylorAnd I think the ability to see the bigger picture within the confines of the system, as it were, I think is a really, really key thing because you bring your personality, your ideas, you're not taking away from anything, you're just adding within those, that structure.
Mark TaylorAnd I think the collaboration thing is really interesting because I think the majority of people or certainly the thing that struck me to begin with was it's not that I think I'm going to get more points because they might know more.
Mark TaylorIt's more the fact that there's the odd thing, which I think I know, but I'd like that support with, or I'd like to just chat through just to clarify, to make sure.
Mark TaylorAnd actually two plus two doesn't really make double, double the knowledge.
Mark TaylorIt actually makes more than that because I think you support each other to almost create a third person or a fourth person, which is, which is a fascinating thing.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Renes LofenorAnd we tend to dismiss or disregard the fact that children learn much easier from other children.
Renes LofenorAnd so by allowing them to work together and I'm listening around how they are collaborating, how they're communicating, how one is trying to explain to another who doesn't understand the concept or a word.
Renes LofenorAnd I would step into support if need be or I would learn as well.
Renes LofenorOh yeah, that's a good way to explain it that I didn't think of.
Renes LofenorSo it's a win, win situation as far as I'm concerned.
Renes LofenorAnd to be honest, the fact that they took the courage to collaborate together despite the risk, most of the time I do count one mistake as one.
Mark TaylorAnd when they're collaborating, is it their own liter, their own choice in terms of collaboration, in terms of who they want to collaborate with or do you have some kind of structure that kind of gives them that?
Renes LofenorIt depends.
Renes LofenorSometimes I let them decide who they want to collaborate to and sometimes I choose myself.
Renes LofenorFor example, I would choose a student who is, let's say at the top level in the class, in the class, in the class, I would try to pair that students with the lowest in, in, in the lesson and they would still accept.
Renes LofenorThey would still accept.
Renes LofenorAnd so yeah, it depends what I want to gain from them.
Renes LofenorAnd when, when I do that, it's because I want that student who, who understands things very well to use their skill to explain to Someone who really doesn't understand.
Renes LofenorBecause by finding the words, the right words, the right way to explain to someone what you know, that in itself is another skill.
Renes LofenorSo that I'm trying to make them develop as well.
Mark TaylorIt really is.
Mark TaylorBecause we can spend so much time in our own heads, as in, well, you know how this goes.
Mark TaylorOr you must understand this, because I do.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Mark TaylorBut like you say, to be able to get that out in a way which is clear and, and actually, sometimes even your thought processes are one or two steps ahead of actually what you need to do, because you might need to take it piece by piece as you're building these things up.
Mark TaylorLike I said, it's such an incredible skill to develop and to not do it in collaboration class, which is.
Mark TaylorSo what's going.
Mark TaylorEverything's gonna.
Mark TaylorClass, everything's siloed in those ways to suddenly realize you can do it in any subject, in any way, as long as you have that environment.
Mark TaylorYeah, it's absolutely brilliant.
Renes LofenorThere's one thing that I really love doing with my classes is during the doing an activity, I would ask everyone who understood the task, put your head up.
Renes LofenorAnd then I would see.
Renes LofenorI would see how many.
Renes LofenorOkay.
Renes LofenorI said, would you like to have a merit?
Renes LofenorA merit.
Renes LofenorSo that's the reward we would give the class.
Renes LofenorDo you want a reward?
Mark TaylorYeah.
Renes LofenorYes.
Renes LofenorOkay, this is what I'm gonna do.
Renes LofenorI'm going to walk outside the door.
Renes LofenorI'll stand outside the door for one minute.
Renes LofenorAnd all those of you who understand, you are going to explain to the rest of the class, make sure everyone understand.
Renes LofenorIf everyone understands, then you will all get a reward.
Renes LofenorAnd those of you who have been explaining, you'll get an extraordinary.
Renes LofenorAnd then I would walk out with my timer and the class would be buzzing, buzzing away.
Mark TaylorYeah, yeah, yeah.
Renes LofenorAnd you would see them going to the weakest students and trying to make sure they understand.
Renes LofenorBecause when I come back, I will pick someone at random.
Renes LofenorAnd usually they know I would go for.
Renes LofenorI would tend to go for.
Renes LofenorFor the weakest student.
Renes LofenorI don't always do that, but I'm.
Renes LofenorI let them know, make sure these people know because they might be the one I'm going to choose.
Renes LofenorAnd, and that's, that's.
Renes LofenorThat's great for me.
Renes LofenorThat's.
Renes LofenorIt does my job in a way for me.
Renes LofenorAnd.
Renes LofenorBut at the same time, they are enjoying it.
Renes LofenorThey are finding the lesson pleasant.
Renes LofenorThey don't see it as a lesson as such or as a traditional lesson where they just have to sit and listen to the Teacher.
Renes LofenorSo as much as I can make a lesson, be interactive.
Renes LofenorI do.
Renes LofenorI do.
Renes LofenorAnd because that's what I wanted when I was myself a student.
Renes LofenorAnd like I said, my goal is to be the teacher that I want.
Renes LofenorI wish I had when I was at school.
Mark TaylorYeah.
Mark TaylorLove it.
Mark TaylorAnd I'm curious as to how that looks within your school and your colleagues.
Mark TaylorDo people pick up on it?
Mark TaylorDo you share these ideas?
Mark TaylorHave other people started doing it as well?
Mark TaylorOr is it like you say, it's your experience bringing that into just your classroom?
Renes LofenorI think that's more my experience.
Renes LofenorThe thing is, it's.
Renes LofenorIt's not always simple to, to implement someone else's methods or this kind of methods where the personality has to match.
Renes LofenorIf, if you're, if you don't have the right personality to do that, it will, it will look fake and the students will not find the same interest in, in doing it.
Mark TaylorAnd I think.
Renes LofenorYeah, yeah.
Mark TaylorAnd I think the bigger picture is important there as well, because I can understand that even if you sort of stood up and said, this is what I do in my class and this is why I do it.
Mark TaylorAnd it works so well for me.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Mark TaylorI think without understanding where we started, which was the.
Mark TaylorI want to get to know the children.
Mark TaylorI want to really make sure we have a rapport and all of that kind of thing.
Mark TaylorWithout all of that, the rest of it doesn't work either.
Mark TaylorSo it's not just about doing A, B and C.
Mark TaylorIt's actually about knowing the whole Alphabet almost and putting.
Mark TaylorAnd putting it in the round.
Mark TaylorIn order for that to be.
Mark TaylorTo give the environment for that to happen.
Renes LofenorAnd if I can make sure this.
Mark TaylorYeah.
Renes LofenorSo connection.
Renes LofenorFor me, that's the main thing for, for me to be.
Renes LofenorStill love teaching.
Renes LofenorI had to connect to my students from the very first lesson.
Renes LofenorAnd if not the first lesson, then the second lesson or until I can connect with them, I know I would not be able to teach them or they would not be able.
Renes LofenorThey would not be willing to learn from me either.
Mark TaylorYeah.
Mark TaylorAnd I think, and I think that's interesting from what you said about having the time instead of the testing, because, you know, if that hour meant that you understood that they had this hobby or a shared love of music or, or something like that, that connection is going to happen much quicker and they're going to gain much more because we, I think we all know that at that moment.
Mark TaylorAnd like you say, with that relationship and then all the great learning that happens afterwards, their test scores would be higher, especially by the end of the year.
Mark TaylorSo actually there's so much benefit in that.
Mark TaylorYeah, absolutely.
Mark TaylorAbsolutely.
Mark TaylorReally amazing.
Renes LofenorAnd you mentioned, you mentioned something about the students.
Renes LofenorDid you say, you said the students skills something now?
Mark TaylorYeah.
Mark TaylorTheir hobbies or their skill sets or their.
Renes LofenorYes, yes.
Renes LofenorAnd that's, that's something that I take, I take into, into account in my teaching as well.
Renes LofenorI share my hobbies with them and, and they share theirs with me and I try to include things that are related to their hobbies in the lesson to make it more relevant to them and, and more in a way easier for them to learn because they know the topic, they, they can relate to it.
Renes LofenorSo.
Mark TaylorYeah, yeah, it makes a lot of sense.
Mark TaylorAnd I'm curious, in terms of your sort of longevity within the profession as well, is it the, the love of things that you've got outside of the job that really help as well?
Mark TaylorYou know, is a, is a music person as someone who loves creating arts and stories and I know that, you know, you haven't just decided as of now, I'm going to write a book.
Mark TaylorIt's been part of what you've been doing for a long time.
Mark TaylorSo talk about that kind of how you see the job sort of as part of your overall life as well.
Renes LofenorBingo.
Renes LofenorYou, you freely, you've nailed it.
Renes LofenorThe reason why I enjoy teaching still is because when I walk out the school building, I leave everything behind.
Renes LofenorI leave the school life behind me.
Renes LofenorI am now in my new new life, hobbies, family time, etc.
Renes LofenorAnd because I'm able to, to disconnect from the school life, I can live the rest of my life fully.
Renes LofenorAnd, and therefore when I return to the school, it's fine.
Renes LofenorI am totally rejuvenated and full of energy and I can, I can go on.
Renes LofenorSo yes, to, to maintain your hobbies outside of school, that's very important.
Renes LofenorI, I am a musician as well.
Renes LofenorI do gigs here and there regularly.
Renes LofenorAnd you're a musician as well, you say, right?
Renes LofenorYes, and for me that's, that's very important.
Renes LofenorI do rock climbing now a bit less because of, of the writing that has been taking a lot of time and then some other things that I'm involved in, like I'm attending a finance course to educate myself in the world of finance.
Renes LofenorBy the way, this is something as I'm learning about finance, I am teaching my tutor group about it as well because that's something that is lacking in schools.
Renes LofenorIn the school system.
Renes LofenorIt's the, the, the finance education to, to students who, as soon as they leave school will be dealing with credit cards, debit cards, loans, and yet they will have no knowledge, no prior knowledge about it.
Renes LofenorSo I am trying to, to do my, my share.
Renes LofenorLike I said, there again to be the teacher that I wished.
Renes LofenorI wish I had in.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Renes LofenorWhen I was in school.
Renes LofenorYeah, yeah.
Renes LofenorMy, my hobbies keep me, keep me strong.
Renes LofenorMy family, my friends keep me.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Renes LofenorStrong outside of school.
Mark TaylorIt's so important.
Mark TaylorAnd finance is something which we've covered on occasions here on the show because there are, there are lots of very passionate people about that and it makes a lot of sense because with that framework in place, like you say, as you leave school, you're in a much better position to do whatever it is that you want to be.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Mark TaylorTo be doing after that.
Mark TaylorI know you said the hobbies are important, but there'll be people listening who, who completely agree with you.
Mark TaylorI'd like to be walking out the school gates and then that's done.
Mark TaylorI'm now in my next life.
Mark TaylorBut aren't able to do that.
Mark TaylorIs that just something you've always been able to do?
Mark TaylorDo you have certain skills, certain tactics that enable that to become a reality for you?
Renes LofenorIf I have been able, or if I've always been able to do that, let's say I've always wanted to be able to do that.
Renes LofenorIn my first year, let's say in my first year as a teacher, as a newly qualified teacher, I was dedicating a lot of my time to school, to marking, to planning lessons.
Renes LofenorI would stay in school until they close, until the caretaker closes the school at 6pm every day because I was enjoying, I was enjoying marking every single book, drawing some, some, some, some anime for.
Renes LofenorTo.
Renes LofenorTo cheer the students who did well and those who didn't do so well.
Renes LofenorI would draw a little version of that same anime to cheer them up.
Renes LofenorAnd they loved having my drawing in their book because they know that that's a sign that they have done well or they are on the path to doing well and planning.
Renes LofenorI would spend a lot of time planning my lessons, especially as a newly qualified teacher.
Renes LofenorI did not have the experience to plan fast.
Renes LofenorAnd also I wanted to.
Renes LofenorI don't know, I wanted to do well.
Renes LofenorI wanted to do so many things, so many things that I wanted my teachers to have done for me.
Renes LofenorSo that took a lot of time.
Renes LofenorAnd I have spent some nights in the library or the computer room of the University of Southampton, but really the whole night I would go, I would go to the, to the computer room and let's say 6 7pm and I would work, would work, plan and tweak things, create PowerPoint and then when I check the time it's 6:30am and I would just go straight to school the next day and.
Renes LofenorBut obviously that's, that wasn't sustainable.
Renes LofenorAnd it comes to a point where the body say hey mate, you have to, you know, take it easy.
Renes LofenorAnd so with the family as well, my wife and then when I got my first child, I had to restructure my life in a way to accommodate the family life and the school.
Renes LofenorSo I learned to dedicate more time or less time to school in order to fill the rest of my life.
Renes LofenorAnd that was actually the best decision because it was healthier anyway.
Renes LofenorSo I don't know if I did not have a family, if I would not if I would have done it or at least would have I done it as well?
Renes LofenorI don't know.
Renes LofenorBut what I can say is that I have some friends who are single and they dedicate much more time to school than I do and obviously that has a, a negative impact on their mood as well.
Renes LofenorYeah, they, they need to, to learn to disconnect like I have tried successfully done.
Renes LofenorAnd yeah, so no, I have not always managed to do that but now, now I can say I have, I've done it so well that that's.
Renes LofenorBut I don't know how I could, how I could guide someone to do it themselves.
Renes LofenorAll I can say is that I had to change my mindset and tell myself the school is my job, my profession.
Renes LofenorOkay, My, my what brings me my salary for me to pay to live.
Renes LofenorSo my real life is outside the school, so I need to live.
Renes LofenorSo therefore anything that you can do to please yourself, your hobbies, see your friends and study any other things that you want to, to, to become proficient at do, do.
Renes LofenorSo do not let school take all of your life because at the end of the day it's gonna ruin your health and consequently your body as well and you will not be able to continue for long and you will want to quit.
Renes LofenorAnd yeah, so.
Mark TaylorAnd I really think that there are a couple of things there that strike me.
Mark TaylorOne, I can identify with that I was a different person pre family than with family.
Mark TaylorAnd it's an easy choice to start to make, isn't it?
Mark TaylorIn terms of I need this to work for this.
Mark TaylorAnd also I think the fact that your career is also a journey because you are a different person when you're just graduated or you're starting a new job.
Mark TaylorAnd that isn't to say that you, you should do it different from day one because there's something about the reps and like you said, the study and the planning that you did then, which puts you in good said for later on, that, you know, there's a certain amount of, of understanding and knowledge and experience that comes with it, which you can do when you're younger and maybe you need to in some way or another.
Mark TaylorI can completely get that.
Mark TaylorBut I think what I love about our conversation today is the fact that I think everyone listening would go, but I want you as a teacher as you are now.
Mark TaylorAnd you've created that because of, despite of all of those things, because of the positives of outside school, the way you want to be within school, because even just like them talking about it's a job and it has a salary from everything that you said in the first part of the show, what you bring to the classroom, in the school because of all of that is such a positive thing.
Mark TaylorAnd like you say, it's really hard to do that if you've gone too far the other way and you're spending too much time about it.
Mark TaylorAnd like I say, you're not rejuvenating yourself to have that perspective, I think, somewhere because it's not like you're trying to cut corners.
Mark TaylorIt's the fact that, you know, the bigger picture, you know, the system is the system.
Mark TaylorYou know what you have to do.
Mark TaylorBut, you know, the fact that your finance has taken you to have those conversations is a, Is a tutor.
Mark TaylorThe fact that, you know, understanding that the way people learn might be better as a collaboration, you know, it's just making all the difference.
Mark TaylorAnd I think, I think that's why I love these conversations.
Mark TaylorPeople just thinking, oh, I could just think of it in that way, or maybe I don't need to do this, I could do that, or whatever it is that's striking everybody.
Mark TaylorWe're all different.
Mark TaylorBut such a great thing to be.
Renes LofenorAble to hear, oh, no, that's.
Renes LofenorI mean, for me to say that I would love to be in my own class, as my own student, and it may sound pompous, but, I mean, at the end of the day, if you believe that what you're doing is right, it might not be right, but if you believe it's right, why not embrace it?
Renes LofenorAnd that's, that's, that's what I, I'm trying to do.
Renes LofenorAnd I.
Renes LofenorThe feedback that I get from the students is telling me that I am doing it right as well.
Renes LofenorMy.
Renes LofenorMy colleagues as well.
Renes LofenorSo, I mean, yeah, so I.
Renes LofenorI don't see.
Renes LofenorYou know, usually when a student see the.
Renes LofenorThe teachers in town, what is the first reflex?
Renes LofenorThey run, they go and hide.
Renes LofenorWhat's for me, I say, hi, Mr.
Renes LofenorFennel.
Renes LofenorOh, hi.
Renes LofenorAnd they're with the parents.
Renes LofenorUsually you're with your parents.
Renes LofenorYou see a teacher, you don't want your parents to see anything.
Renes LofenorBut for me, no, they.
Renes LofenorThey would come and greet me.
Renes LofenorAnd that means.
Renes LofenorThat means a lot.
Renes LofenorSo that.
Renes LofenorThat's one of the things that make me believe that I am doing it right.
Renes LofenorAnd now, like I said, it might not be right, because at the end of the day, right is not.
Renes LofenorIt's not universal.
Renes LofenorAnd it can be subjective for someone, and not for that, but at least for those students that I have, it seems to be right.
Mark TaylorAnd I think.
Mark TaylorI think the key takeaway is that it's right for you.
Mark TaylorAnd so for someone else listening, there'll be elements of it that's right for them, but there's other elements of their personality and how they teach and how they learn and their experience which makes it right for them.
Mark TaylorAnd, you know, often at this part of the show, we talk about an education experience or a teacher or some advice you want to share, but we've kind of talked about all of that within.
Mark TaylorWithin the element of the conversation, which I absolutely love.
Mark TaylorAnd it's not always kind of, you know, Mr.
Mark TaylorSmith, at this class, it's usually the things like you said, it's the fact that they understood me, they saw me, or the fact that I didn't get that experience.
Mark TaylorSo I want to bring that into my school.
Mark TaylorYou know, you shared the idea of the hobbies, the.
Mark TaylorThe idea of sort of putting in perspective all of that.
Mark TaylorI think it's so key, and I think for that to be sort of amalgamated into the heart of what you're doing is.
Mark TaylorIs such a really important thing.
Renes LofenorAnd, and you've said it at the beginning of my book.
Renes LofenorI have clearly written.
Renes LofenorThis book is not intended to be a guide for.
Renes LofenorTo tell you teachers how to do what to do, but only a testimony to show you how have.
Renes LofenorHow I have done things.
Renes LofenorSorry.
Renes LofenorAnd why it has worked for me the way I have done it.
Renes LofenorAnd that's all.
Renes LofenorSo you can pick from it what you think would work for you and dismiss some of it or all of it if it doesn't.
Renes LofenorBut at least I'm just sharing.
Renes LofenorI'm just offering you.
Renes LofenorThat's what I've done.
Renes LofenorNow, you take it or you don't.
Mark TaylorUse it in any way that you can.
Renes LofenorYeah.
Mark TaylorFantastic.
Mark TaylorAnd is there another resource that you'd like to share?
Mark TaylorAnd this can be anything from a video, song, podcast, book, film.
Mark TaylorBut something has had an impact, whether it's personal or professional.
Renes LofenorOkay, well, there was one.
Renes LofenorSince we were talking about exams.
Renes LofenorThere is a video.
Renes LofenorA video.
Renes LofenorIt's called BE.
Renes LofenorGot the name Bobby McFerrin.
Renes LofenorDon't worry, BE Happy.
Renes LofenorThat's it.
Renes LofenorDon't Worry, Be Happy, which I covered just like Bobby McFerrin did.
Renes LofenorSo it's all with vocals, no instrument.
Renes LofenorAnd I recorded it last year and dedicated it to one of my year 11 class just before they sat the GCSE exam.
Renes LofenorAnd at the end of the song, I.
Renes LofenorI left a message for them which they really appreciated.
Renes LofenorAnd so, yeah, that's one I would love to share with you.
Renes LofenorIt's called Don't Worry, Be Happy.
Renes LofenorIt's on my YouTube channel, which is R E N E S B B W.
Renes LofenorI enjoy.
Mark TaylorGreat.
Mark TaylorAnd we'll have links to these things on the show.
Mark TaylorNotes and everything as well.
Mark TaylorAnd I love that.
Mark TaylorThat sense of building up to an exam or all those things as well, because I very much share with my people, pupils, it's the sense that you've already done everything you can before you've got into the exam.
Mark TaylorYou don't know the result or how it's necessarily going to go.
Mark TaylorBut if you've done the work, you put the effort in, and certainly for music, if they've had the opportunity to share what they've done in a concert or something before you've done everything, you don't.
Mark TaylorI don't need for you to get X, Y or Z in order for it to be a success or whatever you deem that success to be.
Mark TaylorAnd I think like, say those con.
Mark TaylorConstant conversations, the things that make a.
Mark TaylorMake a difference with all of that sort of stuff.
Mark TaylorSo obviously the acronym FIRE is important to us here, Education on fire.
Mark TaylorAnd we're talking about feedback, inspiration, resilience and empowerment.
Mark TaylorWhat is it that strikes you when you hear that?
Renes LofenorInspiration.
Renes LofenorInspiration.
Renes LofenorBecause for me, if you can inspire someone, not necessarily students, so because we're talking about education, so I would say student.
Renes LofenorBut if you can inspire anyone, that person will be more likely to get on with the life and empower themselves, therefore becoming more resilient to deal with everything that.
Renes LofenorThat.
Renes LofenorThat they face in life.
Mark TaylorYeah, I love that.
Mark TaylorYeah.
Mark TaylorThey're also interconnected, aren't they?
Mark TaylorIn so many ways and I love the way people count one, one particular thing or the other.
Renes LofenorSo I really love that, that, that acronym.
Renes LofenorIt's really great.
Mark TaylorI'm really pleased.
Mark TaylorSo, Venice, thank you so much for chatting about everything and do make sure everyone knows.
Mark TaylorTell us again the name of the book, where they can find it and any bits of final sort of parting wisdom for it.
Renes LofenorOkay.
Renes LofenorThe name of the book, you can't forget it.
Renes LofenorI still love teaching despite having all the reasons in the world to quit.
Renes LofenorAnd my name, Vaness Le.
Renes LofenorAnyway, if you see that you can't get it wrong and it's available on the, on, on Amazon, on IngramSpark and, and in some, some libraries and shops, but for sure on Amazon you'll find it brilliant.
Mark TaylorThank you so much for your time today and sharing all of that with them.
Renes LofenorI really do appreciate.
Renes LofenorA pleasure.
Renes LofenorThank you, Mark, very much for having me on your platform.
Mark TaylorEducation is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.