The Kids Who Aren’t Okay with Ross W. Greene Ph.D.
Ross W. Greene, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and the originator of the innovative, evidence-based approach called Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS), as described in his influential books The Explosive Child, Lost at School, Lost & Found, and Raising Human Beings.
He developed and executive produced the award-winning documentary film The Kids We Lose. Dr. Greene was on the faculty at Harvard Medical School for over twenty years and is now founding director of the nonprofit Lives in the Balance. He is also currently adjunct Professor in the Department of Psychology at Virginia Tech.
Dr. Greene has worked with several thousand kids with concerning behaviors and their caregivers, and he and his colleagues have overseen implementation and evaluation of the CPS model in countless schools, inpatient psychiatry units, and residential and juvenile detention facilities, with dramatic effect: significant reductions in recidivism, discipline referrals, detentions, suspensions, and use of restraint and seclusion.
Takeaways:
- Dr. Ross Greene emphasizes the necessity of adopting proactive strategies in education to better support children facing mental health challenges.
- We discusses the importance of meeting each child where they are developmentally, rather than enforcing a one-size-fits-all approach in education.
- Dr. Greene’s approach advocates for understanding and addressing the underlying problems causing concerning behaviors rather than merely modifying the behaviours themselves.
- The conversation highlights the alarming increase in mental health issues among children, which necessitates a shift in educational practices and societal attitudes towards youth.
- A focus on developmental variability is crucial in education, as every child’s needs and experiences are unique and deserve tailored support.
Chapters:
- 00:11 – Introduction to Dr. Ross Greene and Collaborative Solutions
- 08:17 – Meeting Every Kid Where They’re At
- 10:54 – Understanding Developmental Variability in Education
- 22:34 – Understanding Student Behavior and Systemic Issues
- 32:54 – The Importance of Collaborative Change in Education
- 38:22 – Empowering Change in Education
https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Kids-Who-Arent-Okay/Ross-W-Greene/9781668203903
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“You Can Only Aspire to What You Know Exists” â A Musical Journey Through Education
In this solo reflective episode, host Mark Taylor wraps up the first part of the Ger Graus Gets Gritty season by doing something personal â instead of a straightforward summary, he weaves the season’s key themes through the story of his own life in music. From a secondary school wind band to 30 years as a professional musician and music educator, Mark explores how opportunity, community, practice, and personalised learning shaped his path. He draws on insights from his conversations with Ger Graus to reflect on what great education looks like â and what’s at risk when funding, trust, and time are taken away. A heartfelt and thought-provoking listen for anyone who believes in the transformative power of education.
1. Children can only aspire to what they know exists Exposure is everything. Mark’s entire music career began because a school programme placed an instrument in his hands. Without that structured opportunity, he simply wouldn’t have known it was possible. Educators and systems have a responsibility to show children what the world contains.
2. The task is not to make the impossible possible â but to make the possible attainable Big dreams don’t require giant leaps. What they require is a visible next step. Mark’s path grew one rung at a time: junior band â senior band â county ensemble â music college â profession. Clear, accessible stepping stones are what turn potential into reality.
3. Deep practice builds something you can rely on under pressure When Mark performed his first brass band drum solo, it went well not because of talent â but because he’d practised so thoroughly it was in his muscle memory. Real mastery means the skill holds even when nerves are high. This applies far beyond music.
4. Community makes the individual possible Behind every successful learner is a network of people: a visionary head teacher, an encouraging music teacher, parents organising lifts, peers in an ensemble. Mark’s journey wasn’t a solo performance â it was a collective effort. Nurturing that ecosystem around a child matters as much as the teaching itself.
5. Wellbeing isn’t a bolt-on â it’s what happens when children are fully themselves Rather than offering mindfulness classes as a fix for an overburdened curriculum, Mark argues that real wellbeing comes from giving children time to pursue what lights them up. Meaningful, deep engagement with something they love is the wellbeing strategy.
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Ger Graus Gets Gritty Recap Show
This week I used AI to summarize the 7 episodes I have recorded with Prof Dr Ger Graus OBE about his book Through a Different Lens: Lessons from a Life in Education.
The aim was to give you a short (22 mins) overview of the themes we have discussed in a different way.
I used the transcripts from all 7 episodes to create a summary document in Claude which I then imported to NotebookLM that in turn created a conversation between 2 AI voices.
Link to the GGGG series audio playlist:
https://player.captivate.fm/collection/54f98b13-e7b7-4c0e-bb3b-bc3b54a3c2ae
Link to the GGGG series video playlist:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLy3hA_bI5MImKV4GN5-ZyRCOa2PVe9ysU&si=1o78GkM1erluHakp
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GGGG Ep 7 – And finally
Based on the final chapter of Prof Dr Ger Graus’s book Through a Different Lens: Lessons from a Life in Education (Routledge), this conversation asks the most honest question of the entire series: So what?
Ger examines what 40-plus years of educational work has truly changed â and what it hasn’t.
At the heart of the episode is a sobering reckoning: Wythenshawe, the deprived area of Manchester where Ger dedicated much of his career, remains in the bottom 25% of England’s most disadvantaged communities â just as it was in 1999. Yet rather than despair, Ger finds meaning in the individual lives transformed, the schools that finally began collaborating, and the quiet but lasting legacy of the Education Action Zone that brought 29 schools together for the first time.
Joining the conversation are educators, researchers, and colleagues who offer their own reflections on the book’s significance â including insights from OECD Education Director Andreas Schleicher’s afterword, and a passionate endorsement from Russian education researcher Dr. Sergey Kosaretsky.
Key Quotes
Ger Graus on systemic change:
“Certain dials are too big to shift by one person or by one small organisation. It’s a concerted effort â and in order to see the big picture, all pieces of the jigsaw need to fall into place.”
Ger Graus on political impatience:
“It’s taken you since the 1944 Education Act to keep getting it wrong. Whatever made you think that in five years we would solve all your problems?”
Andreas Schleicher (OECD), quoted from the book’s Afterword:
“The task is not to make the impossible possible, but to make the possible attainable.”
Dr. Sergey Kosaretsky on the book’s message:
“Education is not only schools. Education is not only universities. Education is a lot of things that children do every day â with their friends, their parents, with themselves.”
Mark Sylvester on Ger’s philosophy:
“One of the things he would say is that he wants to teach children, but also to teach humans how to learn.”
Key Takeaways
1. Structural poverty is stubborn â but individual impact still matters. Despite decades of effort, the communities Ger worked in remain among England’s most deprived. He doesn’t shy away from this, but argues that transforming individual lives â like the girl from Wythenshawe who played Juliet in Italy and re-engaged with school entirely â is proof that the work was never wasted.
2. Change in education takes generational patience. Politicians want results in five-year cycles. Ger argues that meaningful educational reform operates on a far longer timeline, and that unrealistic expectations are one of the biggest barriers to real progress.
3. Lived and informal experience is education too. Multiple contributors highlight that education extends well beyond school walls â into homes, exchanges, community experiences, and play. Ger’s career has been defined by championing this broader definition.
4. The book is a call to action, not just a memoir. Colleagues urge policymakers â especially those working on England’s forthcoming schools white paper â to read Through a Different Lens and draw from its hard-won lessons. It’s described as “a textbook for all teachers, educators, and parents.”
5. Asking “so what?” is an act of courage, not defeat. Ger’s willingness to interrogate his own legacy â particularly in the shadow of a cancer diagnosis â models the kind of honest, reflective leadership that education urgently needs.
Chapters:
- 00:07 – Introduction to the Series
- 02:54 – Reflecting on Impact and Change
- 10:41 – Reflections on Education and Poverty
- 15:40 – The Importance of Lived Experience in Education
- 19:42 – The Importance of Education Beyond Schools
- 24:27 – The Role of New Leaders in Education
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Testimonials
John Cosgrove – Retired Headteacher and Author, UK
Richard Taylor – Former Head of English and Colleague of Ger, UK
Mark Sylvester – Executive Producer, TEDx, USA
Professor Sergey Kosaretsky – Vice Rector for Research, Moscow State University of Psychology and Education (MSUPE)
GGGG Ep 6 – More than a school – measuring what we value
“More Than a School: Values, Measurement, and What Education Is Really For”
In this episode of the Ger Graus Gets Gritty series, Mark Taylor sits down once again with Professor Dr. Ger Graus OBE to explore one of his most passionate themes â the idea that schools are, and must intentionally become, more than a school. Drawing on his own transformative work leading Education Action Zones in Wythenshawe, South Manchester, Ger makes a compelling case for community-rooted education that puts the whole child first, measures what truly matters, and trusts teachers as the professionals they are.
Inspired by FC Barcelona’s famous motto MÊs que un Club (“More than a Club”), Ger argues that schools â particularly primary schools embedded in their communities â have always carried responsibilities far beyond academic instruction. But rather than waiting for government to dictate how those responsibilities are fulfilled, he urges schools to seize the agenda, define their own values, and prove their impact on their own terms.
From breakfast clubs to brokering local solutions within a network of 29 schools, from the dangers of league table dishonesty to the transformative power of professional trust. It’s a rallying call to educators, parents, and policymakers alike.
“Schools invariably already are more than a school. But I think we need to become better at it and perhaps we need to become more deliberate at it.”
“If we want to do the ‘more than a school’ bit properly, I think we need to begin with the values of why are we doing this â and what is the impact, and how is that good for our children, our families, our communities?”
Key Takeaways
1. Schools must be deliberately “more than a school.” The challenge is to make that broader role intentional, values-driven, and properly resourced, rather than reactive and underfunded. Schools should stop waiting for government permission and start leading the agenda themselves.
2. Start with the whole child, not the average child. A child who is hungry, cold, or emotionally unsettled cannot learn. Ger champions breakfast clubs, pastoral support, and out-of-school activities not as “nice extras” but as the essential foundation for learning. The 10 A’s identified in Cambridge University research on Children’s University â including attendance, attainment, attitudes, adventure, agency, and advocacy â offer a far richer picture of school impact than narrow inspection frameworks.
3. Measure progress, not just performance. League tables and one-size-fits-all inspection frameworks distort reality and incentivise dishonesty. Ger advocates for progress measures that reflect a school’s specific community context â comparing a school against its own journey rather than against wealthier, more selective institutions. Meaningful accountability means schools defining and measuring their own impact transparently.
4. Professional trust is the missing ingredient. The Wythenshawe Education Action Zone showed what’s possible when teachers and headteachers are genuinely trusted: 29 schools that had never met collectively began collaborating, sharing expertise, and solving problems from within. No external consultants, no top-down directives â just professionals empowered to know their children, their families, and their communities.
5. Respect and trust for teachers must be made visible â by everyone. Ger’s closing call to action is personal and practical. To parents: engage with teachers as the professionals they are, rather than rushing to challenge or undermine them. To government: back up the rhetoric of “trusting teachers” with real autonomy. And to everyone: make trust visible in small, tangible acts â like a handwritten thank-you note after a difficult week. As Ger puts it, “We need to make trust and respect visible. We owe that to our teachers.”
Chapters:
- 00:01 – Introduction to the Series
- 01:13 – More Than a School: Understanding Community Impact
- 29:20 – Building Community Trust in Education
- 32:31 – Transforming Education: A New Approach
- 42:20 – The Impact of Demographic Changes on Education
- 01:02:07 – The Ongoing Journey of Education
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